A person with high EQ has no enemies, a person with high IQ has no friends. Emotional intelligence is about making others comfortable, but it must be self-serving. If you make others comfortable, but you are miserable, that is not emotional intelligence, that is stupid. -- Dale Carnegie

情商高的人没有敌人，智商高的人没有朋友。情商就是让别人舒服，但一定利己。如果你让别人舒服，自己却很痛苦，那不叫情商，那是愚蠢。 ——戴尔.卡耐基

When you start to see money differently, you will start to earn more money than the people around you. Take a look at how the tax system works if you want to start learning about money.

And when everyone works for money and have no financial freedom, you will be ostracised by everyone else for being able to spend time anytime you want, and do things that everyone else can’t.

Sad, but true.

Silence is something that comes from your heart,
not from outside.
Silence doesn’t mean not talking and not doing things; it means that you are not disturbed inside.
If you’re truly silent, then no matter what situation you find yourself in you can enjoy the silence.
内心的寂静，不来源于外界，而是来源于内心。
寂静，并非意味着“不说话”“不做事”；“寂静”意味着你的内心不受干扰。
如果你真的“寂静”，这样无论你发现自己处于何种境遇，你都能享受到这份“寂静”。

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