刷到前任谈了个女朋友，我虽然每天让自己open mind 但我真的很难接受和双谈恋爱，其本质并不在于无法接受双性恋群体，而是因为同性亲密关系在这个社会中无论舆论或者法律层面就是少数群体，处于边缘不被社会广泛认同，所以在异性关系面前总是不自信的、没有安全感的。

跟你在一起遮遮掩掩大街上都不敢牵手的双性恋男友，和你分手后可以大方地在朋友圈秀他和新女朋友的恩爱并收获所有人的祝福，再也不用像跟你在一起的时候那样过特务生活

当跟你好了5年8年的男朋友到年纪迫于社会压力去相亲结婚了，在朋友圈官宣结婚文案是“老婆是我这一生最爱的人”，你才发现你坚持不婚不害人反而成了这个社会中要遭受非议的异类

社会的歧视和法律制度的缺失是同性恋抗拒双性恋的最大原因，朝不保夕的不安全感让本就广泛缺乏安全感的同性恋更加患得患失，也让本就应该站在一起的两个性少数群体产生割裂

回到这件事的起点，爱自己爱的人，又有什么错呢？

在Reader’s Digest 上看到一篇文章，关于12星座适合看什么类型的书。感觉有意思，我的星座特质也有些符合文章所说，但远不止这些[哈哈]

Cancer (June 21–July 22): Women’s fiction

Cancer is the sign of intense emotions, so books based on zodiac signs for this person should nurture the body, mind and soul. Vetovich recommends “anything regarding family or found family.” Literary women’s fiction, books for women and novels filled with emotional depth are great choices. Look for family dramas and epics with themes around parenting and reparenting. Cancer is a sign that speaks to the inner child, so children’s books may also stir the heart of this moon-ruled sign. Cancers are also able to handle strong feelings and monumental passions, so tearjerkers and other sad books are definite Cancer territory.

好词
tearjerker：N. a book, film, play, etc. that has a sad story intended to make people cry or be sad. 催人泪下（或十分伤感）的书（或电影、戏剧等）

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#英语[超话]#

#艾尔登法环#
D对罗杰尔的评价和罗杰尔套装里罗杰尔对自己的评价不谋而合，D是最了解罗杰尔的那个人啊。“天资聪颖，看似一派从容，但意志坚定，不会受外力影响。
Don't let his easy air deceive you. He was wise beyond his years, stout of heart and clear of mind”
【出处：游戏《艾尔登法环》】